Tako kot večina žensk po porodu, ima tudi Haddas na trebuhu nekaj odvečne kože in strije, ki jih je ponosno pokazala celemu svetu. Zaradi vseh računalniško obdelalnih lepotic in nerealno popolnih fotografij, ki krožijo po socialnih omrežjih, se je pogosto počutila manj lepo.

No, sedaj se je svoje telo naučila imeti rada in tako postala vzor milijonom žensk po celem svetu, ki so se v nekem trenutku počutile enako.

»Drago moje telo, v zadnjem času ti tega nisem pokazala, a rada te imam in ponosna sem na tebe. Ko bom nekega dne znova noseča, se boš spet spremenilo, a ne skrbi, še vedno boš lepo,« je zapisala pod objavljeno fotografijo. »Ko rodite, ne prenehajte dobro izgledati v bikiniju, samo malo drugače. Ko vaše telo ne izgleda več kot telo bikini modelom, in ko imate telo prave mame, bodite ponosne.«

 

Hello body, I haven't appreciated you much lately but I do love you, I am proud of you too. One day if we have another child, you're going to change again but don't worry, you'll still be beautiful! Just like every other body, you are full of wonder and worthy of love. Thanks for keeping me alive after all I've put you through, I promise I'll take care of you and feed you lots of good food to show you my gratitude. With love, your tenant

A photo posted by Haddas Ancliffe (@dahs) on Dec 14, 2015 at 4:34pm PST

 

I have bad days you know... Days where I look at myself and think, I'll never look like girls on Instagram in their calvins with amazing figures and smooth flat tummies. But I don't have days anymore where I want to tear off my skin or cry at my reflection. Gone are the days where I'd refuse to go out if I thought I looked bad or get mad at anyone who would compliment me. NOW most of my days I look at myself and I'm happy. My body isn't where I'd like it to be health/strength wise, my skin sees pimples daily and my hair is mostly in a frizzy bun but I'm beautiful none the less! I'm one of God's creations which in itself means I am beautiful, glorious even. I want to be real with everyone that's why I'm saying this, so you know I don't just have 100% confidence and no flaws. I am flawed, I'm not always confident but I am living and breathing and full of love so I have no reason to be down on myself. Same goes for all of you, whether you're a mommy or not, if you're alive you are nothing short of beautiful. #mycalvins P.S these bras are so good for breastfeeding

A photo posted by Haddas Ancliffe (@dahs) on Nov 5, 2015 at 2:49pm PST